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Role-Play Harness – For Couples Play

Rated 4.00 out of 5 based on 2 customer ratings
(2 customer reviews)

$49.90

Take the reins of desire. This elegant harness turns your lover into a willing mount and you into the rider. A new, thrilling game of control awaits.

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Unleash Your Inner Rider: The Role-Play Harness

Step into a world of exhilarating fantasy and shared control with the Role-Play Harness. Designed for adventurous couples looking to explore new dynamics in their intimate play, this harness invites you to embrace the thrilling roles of rider and guide, unlocking a new level of connection and intensity.

Experience Unrivaled Control & Comfort:

  • Commanding Presence: The centerpiece of this harness is a sturdy, polished stainless steel control bar (approx. 30cm/11.8 inches long, 2cm/0.79 inches diameter), thoughtfully positioned at the lower back. This bar provides a firm and ergonomic grip for your partner, allowing them to guide your movements and heighten the sensations of your shared scenario.

  • Ergonomic & Padded Shoulder Straps: Crafted for comfort during extended play, the wide shoulder straps (approx. 47cm/18.5 inches long, 9cm/3.5 inches wide) are generously padded with a soft sponge layer, encased in a smooth, skin-friendly fabric. This multi-layer design (webbing core, fabric, sponge, fabric) ensures a comfortable fit without chafing, distributing pressure evenly.

  • Fully Adjustable for a Perfect Fit:

    • Shoulder & Back Straps: Durable webbing straps (Strap 1: approx. 30cm/11.8 inches x 2.5cm/1 inch; Strap 2: approx. 23cm-48cm/9-18.9 inches x 2.5cm/1 inch, adjustable) feature smooth-gliding adjustment buckles, allowing you to customize the length for a secure and snug fit across various body types.

    • Elastic Chest Strap: A flexible elastic band (approx. 24cm-55cm/9.4-21.6 inches long, 5cm/2 inches wide) across the front provides additional stability and adaptability, ensuring the harness stays comfortably in place as movements intensify.

  • Premium Materials: Constructed from high-quality webbing for strength, soft fabric and sponge for comfort, and durable stainless steel for the control bar and connecting rings (ring diameter approx. 6cm/2.36 inches), this harness is built to last and designed for pleasure.

  • Lightweight & Discreet Storage: Despite its robust construction, the harness is surprisingly lightweight and can be easily folded for discreet storage when not in use.

Transform Your Encounters:

Whether you’re exploring dominant/submissive dynamics, equestrian role-play, or simply seeking a novel way to enhance intimacy, the Equestrian Command™ Harness offers a unique avenue for passionate interaction. It’s easy to put on, comfortable to wear, and designed to facilitate a range of “riding” positions and controlled movements.

Product Specifications:

  • Product Name: Role-Play Harness

  • Materials: Durable Webbing, Soft Fabric, Comfort Sponge, Stainless Steel

  • Dimensions (Approximate, please allow for slight manual measurement variance):

    • Padded Shoulder Straps: Length ~47cm (18.5″), Width ~9cm (3.5″)

    • Stainless Steel Control Bar: Length ~30cm (11.8″), Diameter ~2cm (0.79″)

    • Webbing Strap 1 (fixed length portion): ~30cm (11.8″) x 2.5cm (1″)

    • Webbing Strap 2 (adjustable portion): ~23cm-48cm (9″-18.9″) x 2.5cm (1″)

    • Elastic Chest Strap: Length ~24cm-55cm (9.4″-21.6″), Width ~5cm (2″)

    • Connecting Rings: Diameter ~6cm (2.36″)

    • Overall Structure as laid flat: Handle to top of shoulder straps ~30cm (11.8″), Widest point of shoulder straps ~47cm (18.5″), Adjustable back strap section ~24-55cm (9.4″-21.6″).

Ready to take the reins of your desire? Add the Role-Play Harness to your collection and gallop into a new realm of pleasure.

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2 reviews for Role-Play Harness – For Couples Play

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    Rated 4 out of 5
    Alex & Riley
    June 7, 2025
    Great for control, but the bar gets cold!

    We love the level of control this harness provides. The bar is solid and feels very authoritative. The padded shoulders are a nice touch. Our only small critique is that the stainless steel bar can be quite cold on the skin initially! We’ve learned to warm it up a bit beforehand. It adds an interesting temperature play element, but it’s something to be aware of if you’re not expecting it.

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    Rated 4 out of 5
    Chris T.
    June 11, 2025
    Very adjustable, but tricky to fit alone.

    This is a high-quality piece of gear. Once it’s on and fitted, it’s incredibly comfortable and secure. The bar gives my Dom great control. The only reason it’s not 5 stars is that getting it adjusted perfectly by myself is a bit of a challenge. It’s much easier with a helping hand. So, definitely a “couples play” item in more ways than one!

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